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This is a great tantric movie for men... starts out slow, but stick with it. highly recommended. i rented it on Amazon...

be my tantric lover... my favorite video explaining how i see it~

a good video about sexual healing~

a great video on sexual healing for men by another dakini who i happen to admire a lot~

Longer lasting secrets... this is a great website from someone who knows what's goin on!

The Many Petals of Yoni Massage~

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Neuroscience and the True Purpose of Yoga

a friend and mentor talks about Tantric coaching:

Why Tantra is the new yoga!

a great article on your pelvic floor, exercise, ED, and PE…

a great article on curing stress with breath and yoga!

What is a dakini? i love this article, and it explains me, what i do, and why~

a great link on lingam body work~

a wonderful link on yoni body work~

sacred prostitute~

This is a web page i created on tantra and other related topics… mostly links and various articles… enjoy!


Books i recommend:

Desire by Daniel Odier (and anything else by him)

The Heart of Tantric Sex by Diana Richardson (and anything else by her)

Tantra, the Path of Ecstasy by Georg Feuerstein

The Multi-Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia & Douglas Abrams

Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas

Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma by Peter Levine

Tantric Transformation by OSHO

The Book of Secrets by OSHO (112 micro-practices)

Undefended Love by Jett Psaris PHD and Marlena S Lyons PHD

Sexual Awakening for Women by Shakti Malan PHD

audio book:

Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

On Presence:

"Presence is an expression of beingness, a creator of intimacy. It has to do with being wise in your simplicity. From simple beingness, your true identity emerges. Presence is being open, aware, and in the now. Presence is 'being there' for whatever is.

Think back to a time when someone looked deeply into your eyes, acknowledging your beingness with their full presence. Remember how wonderful and intimate that felt. When you want to be intimate with someone, become equally open, aware, and present. When you bring your awareness into the present moment, everything else falls away. When you are fully present, your mind is not preparing responses to what it is hearing while you're listening and feeling. Drop your evaluating and reactive nature. Trust that your heart will have the appropriate response when the time comes. Allow your mind to be quietly responsive, like a pool of water, natural in its unconditional acceptance of the moment.

Presence is simple. It is like being caught in the moment by the beauty of nature. Presence is your natural state of being. When you are present, your heart feels open, charged, full. When you are present, whether alone or with another, you are loose and relaxed. Time may seem to slow down. You can expand your awareness with ease, allowing yourself to truly see and be seen. You let your feelings speak through your eyes, and the 'feeling channel' in you breathes freely, without expectation or judgement."

~Ariel Spilsbury~

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